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Reframing “Shoulds”

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Healthy Mind
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Hannah Castillo
Mental Health Counselor
A should statement is a type of negative thinking pattern. “Shoulds” lead to judgment and can trigger feelings of anxiety and self-doubt. With practice, you can begin to identify and work on reframing your “Shoulds.”
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I think we all struggle with “shoulds” sometimes. Thank you for tools to help reframe these thoughts.
Jeanne Marie
I’ve been trapped inside my “should have’s” for quite some time…thanks for opening the door to change for me!
Shoud that’s a new word in My vocabulary
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This was a good one. I use should a lot and it does cause anxiety. Will work at changing my vocabulary and being so hard on myself.
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