When Love is Abusive: Reclaim True Love

True wisdom

So enlightening and inspiring! I will listen to it over and over again!

Love

I need to stop allowing things I don’t want. I need to put my heart first

Relationships

I attract what I don't want. I think I can fix everyone. What I really need to do is pay attention to my needs so I can change to attract what I really want.

Cvs

I feel when honest about relationship insecurities, I seen where it is used against me in a negative way!

Reflections

I connected with the description of abuse from someone whom you truly loved that ended up hurting me. I’ll always love him. I’m hopeful for change. He was unstable, but I hope he can gain the stability we all need and the help he needs to be mentally able to be healthy and functional. Abuse is not my destiny. I did not deserve it. My empathy is so magnetic, those who feel they are unlovable and need “fixed”, are drawn to me. As I am drawn to them, seeing only good, in hopes to help them fix themselves

Believed

I believed that he was the most amazing person for me...I believed it so badly that I neglected to believe in who I was. I lost all self respect and worth all because I believed him. Mistruths, manipulations and negativity. I believed it all. The saddest part is that I lost my own trust...in myself. Healing to rebuild that belief that I am enough. Just as I am. For me. Thankyou Dorothy. You always give me hope💝

I need this

There is a way to put into words how I’m feeling, and this explains it perfectly. But man it hurts.

Unconditional Love

This perfectly described my previous marriage and my new relationship. Just the affirmation I needed to start my day!

Oh my!!!

This describes my efforts at finding love. Following my wife’s death 9 years ago , I have floundered around, trying to save the maiden, change a mind, melt a frozen heart, accept the crumbs while thinking it was a full meal. They couldn’t share love they did not have. I understand now that I must patiently show my love, ask for abundance and that the one I am seeking is also seeking me. A beautiful piece. Thank you.

SeptemberKid

It feels great and more relaxed. I am more energized. My energy is renewed

Describes my former toxic relationship

Put down in simple words of how it went in my former relationship. This gave me insight and room to process the relationship to take further steps. It made me lighter and softer ❤️

First Flowering Bath Ritual

I’m in a flowering bath right now and I first listened to the tranquility meditation. Then to the When Love was Abusive life coaching recording. It was very timely having ended an unhealthy relationship yesterday. I did this in the hopes it would be restorative. I’ve been sad and angry a lot of the day. I can’t say that I’m happy right now, but I do feel peaceful. ❤️

I really felt that alot of the connections in the past (exes, Dad, friends, Shanth) were all quite abusive as in people who mooched off my energy, didn’t really value me as a person.

I learned that now I honour myself. I’ve come a long way. I no longer explain. I state my boundary and keep moving forward to new true love. Better friends, my true divine counterpart. I’m grateful that I can surrender to divine and dwell in the shadow of the almighty and under the angels’ wings.

Truly Amazing

I felt relaxed but also enjoyed how she was able to explain what I have wanted to say all along!

Opening up

That was beautiful it’s giving me the encouragement to move past this past relationship and opening myself up to real unconditional love from a man so beautiful 🙏

This has happened ...

From the Time of my first Crush or All Subsequent Loves!I have been love drained my Others - And I have Drained my Love for My Closest Others.....I will love myself now or Others With a New Form of Love in Genuine Wholeness..Please Pray and Meditate for Ourselves and our Others! Colina

A toxic relationship

My past relationship was a form of me trying to heal myself by healing someone else and I have to heal myself first. I cannot pour from an empty cup. If I am not whole I could potentially be toxic to another being. And anyone that has hurt or trauma will not be good for me as they would be using my energy and love to try and heal their wounds, and the only one who can heal their wounds is THEM.

When Love is Abusive...

Unfortunately this session describes just about every relationship that I have ever been part of ever since a very young age. No, my life is not the worst one ever experienced in life in this planet, but I was allowing that pain to follow me through the Universe again and again. At 63 years old, I finally found a good group of Healers that have experienced their own travel through life’s mysteries. I love, literally, how this Meditation Story left me feeling as a laid in peaceful contemplation at the end of the recording! Thank you for sharing this message for those of us who have not yet realized their love and worth! <3 <3 <3

I am Beautiful

I learned that it’s ok to still be in waiting for this person that is capable of true unconditional love to enter into my life. I’m 62 & have learned so much about what I’ve accepted & allowed was totally wrong and unhealthy. Still working on myself.

I realized why I always attracted the wrong man. In almost every relationship I've had at some point I felt like I was always the giver and they were the taker. I felt used and empty. Now I will my know

Wrong man. I allowed them to shine,while I dimmed my own light. I would eventually feel bad about myself when they put me down. I will no longer allow anyone into my life who does not appreciate me for who I am.