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When Love Has Been Abusive: How to Reclaim True Love (14:20 Min)

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Dorothy Ratusny
Life Coaching WISDOM
For you to find great love in this life is your destiny. Your heart has been yearning for this... A spoken 'inspired' message to remind you of how the love you had (or may still have) is not real love if it comes with abusive words or actions.  And how to reclaim the real love that you are so deserving of.  Believe in this. When you ask for what you truly want and then as you are willing to receive it (even with caution) - you are reminded of the great power of receiving everything that you most desire - and with this - new love.
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14 reflections
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Sandra
True wisdom
So enlightening and inspiring! I will listen to it over and over again!
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Lisa
Love
I need to stop allowing things I don’t want. I need to put my heart first
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Wendy
Relationships
I attract what I don't want. I think I can fix everyone. What I really need to do is pay attention to my needs so I can change to attract what I really want.
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Chuck
Cvs
I feel when honest about relationship insecurities, I seen where it is used against me in a negative way!
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Emily
Reflections
I connected with the description of abuse from someone whom you truly loved that ended up hurting me. I’ll always love him. I’m hopeful for change. He was unstable, but I hope he can gain the stability we all need and the help he needs to be mentally able to be healthy and functional. Abuse is not my destiny. I did not deserve it. My empathy is so magnetic, those who feel they are unlovable and need “fixed”, are drawn to me. As I am drawn to them, seeing only good, in hopes to help them fix themselves
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Michele
Believed
I believed that he was the most amazing person for me...I believed it so badly that I neglected to believe in who I was. I lost all self respect and worth all because I believed him. Mistruths, manipulations and negativity. I believed it all. The saddest part is that I lost my own trust...in myself. Healing to rebuild that belief that I am enough. Just as I am. For me. Thankyou Dorothy. You always give me hope💝
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chelsea
I need this
There is a way to put into words how I’m feeling, and this explains it perfectly. But man it hurts.
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Lee
Unconditional Love
This perfectly described my previous marriage and my new relationship. Just the affirmation I needed to start my day!
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John
Oh my!!!
This describes my efforts at finding love. Following my wife’s death 9 years ago , I have floundered around, trying to save the maiden, change a mind, melt a frozen heart, accept the crumbs while thinking it was a full meal. They couldn’t share love they did not have. I understand now that I must patiently show my love, ask for abundance and that the one I am seeking is also seeking me. A beautiful piece. Thank you.
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Joseph Brefo
SeptemberKid
It feels great and more relaxed. I am more energized. My energy is renewed
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Asher
Describes my former toxic relationship
Put down in simple words of how it went in my former relationship. This gave me insight and room to process the relationship to take further steps. It made me lighter and softer ❤️
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Jackie
First Flowering Bath Ritual
I’m in a flowering bath right now and I first listened to the tranquility meditation. Then to the When Love was Abusive life coaching recording. It was very timely having ended an unhealthy relationship yesterday. I did this in the hopes it would be restorative. I’ve been sad and angry a lot of the day. I can’t say that I’m happy right now, but I do feel peaceful. ❤️
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Angeline
I really felt that alot of the connections in the past (exes, Dad, friends, Shanth) were all quite abusive as in people who mooched off my energy, didn’t really value me as a person.
I learned that now I honour myself. I’ve come a long way. I no longer explain. I state my boundary and keep moving forward to new true love. Better friends, my true divine counterpart. I’m grateful that I can surrender to divine and dwell in the shadow of the almighty and under the angels’ wings.
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Colbie
Truly Amazing
I felt relaxed but also enjoyed how she was able to explain what I have wanted to say all along!
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