Owning it
I passionately practice and believe in "owning it". In any given situation, I own my words, behaviors, and contributions to it. I take full responsibility for my part in it. I will not be a victim! No pity parties for me. I learned how to master this years ago. When I apologize to someone, rather than the hollow sounding "I'm sorry", I say "I was wrong". I tell the person exactly what I did that I shouldn't have. I then may say that I'm sorry I hurt them because of my words or actions. I own it. I heard a saying once about keeping my side of the street clean. I'm not perfect by any means. I will not give power to feelings of guilt, regret, or letting myself be a victim. I'm not concerned with blaming others. This is another puzzle piece to my freedom and ability to live in peace and joy. Another thing I do is remember the fun, joy, and beautiful moments about someone, rather than the negative. I turn it around which allows me to make peace with it and my thoughts are good ones now. I believe that taking responsibility for one's self is essential. 😊