I need to get myself in the mindset when something negative happens, to be happy and know that it was making room for something new. It could be a small thing, or a big thing. The universe has so much in store for all of us! There's no way these wonderful gifts can come if there is no room. The universe makes room. This process may not come the way we wanted it to. Like the ending of a relationship, loss of a job, etc... We can manifest our goals, but we can't dictate how they are to be reached. The universe works in mysterious ways!