I learned that I find it extremely hard to forgive, and I must unbind myself from righteousness.
The commitment to truth is still of ultimate importance.
I need to watch myself getting defensive what having a conversation/argument. Feeling personally attacked by someone’s actions/thoughts/opinions, and responding as such. This is harmful to everyone, and is not getting me anywhere.
I have so much trauma to let go of, memories that invade my mind every day, and go to war with my body.
I am grateful he and I are both committed to doing the work.
Growing can be very painful, but the results are so beautiful.