I needed this. I met someone new too soon. He flaked out on me yesterday because we were supposed to hang out and his excuse was lame. I’m seeking validation and love outside of myself because I’m lonely and don’t feel worthy. He validated how I feel about myself and honestly he’s the one that’s a mess. Maybe he doesn’t feel worthy of me? I am pretty. I am doing good as far as being better. My heart has been broken too recently by my husband and I don’t really know how to just love myself when I feel no one else does.