Discovering Your Life & Sexual Values

When pursuing a serious relationship with someone, you must have the same values. I tell this all the time to my clients. For some reason, it might get ignored for several reasons: you love the person, you’ve invested a lot of time into the relationship already, you want to have children with them, everything is perfect except for that, etc. But the struggle is real. If you don’t align with your values, it’s going to affect your relationship negatively in so many ways; just like sexual energy, if you don’t have values that align, it starts to bleed into everyday aspects of your personhood. Photo by Jennifer Marquez on Unsplash