Growing
I learned that although I have alot of these qualities I need to address a problem with my brother he does not treat me with respect I have no grudge but avoid speaking with him after my fathers death which was traumatic for us both in very different ways. I have been excluded by circumstances from funerals, any arrangements and any keep sakes. He found him dead and was living with him the time of his death. It is such a long story and think I need perspective and am considering talking to someone should I let in someone who is detrimental to my mental health so other members of the family like my mother can feel at peace? If so how do I maintain healthy boundaries so it doesn’t impact my life?