Cherish, you should hear this story today. It's not the gift, its the intent and love behind the gift. Parents understand this better than others. I need to remember more that it’s my simple presence here at home, that means the most to my wife and family, because a slight change to the circumstances and I might have been gone for good. But I survived. I AM here. I may not have the resources I used to have, but I can offer much more alive than dead.