Powerful, true words
This may be the single most important meditation I’ve heard yet on Aura. My boyfriend told me when we started dating, that unmet expectations were the destroyers of relationships. I agreed wholeheartedly. What I thought that meant, were specific expectations that we set intentionally with each other… Only seeing each other exclusively, not dating other people, etc. Recently, I’ve had a couple of moments of illumination. The first, is that he has ADHD - we process things differently, so I am learning to see things through a new perspective. The second, happened just now when listening to this meditation. He doesn’t always respond the way that I would expect. Or his actions or choices might not reflect what I would typically choose to do in a situation. Sometimes his responses left me feeling disappointed or hurt - but not because of anything based in fact, it was all in my perception and how I expected him to respond based on what I was giving of myself at the time. This meditation has helped shift my perspective yet again, and I am incredibly grateful for it. Thank you so much.