Cognitive Impact of Betrayal

+ Lowered self-esteem (Why wasn’t | good enough?) - How much of the situation had to do with you vs. your partner? - What characteristics make someone a good person? + Gives the hecklers a voice - How do you silence them? - Challenge them with “Who says?” +Questioning judgment/feeling stupid -Given the information you had at the time is it reasonable to expect you would have “known?” -What can you learn from this situation?