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This Is You... Being Love

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Dorothy Ratusny
Life Coaching WISDOM
being love is a choice.  it is both a deliberate practice and your natural state (of being). "being love" can best be described as being kind, compassionate, truthful, caring, accepting, inclusive, honourable, and possibly any other adjective that accurately describes what we might characterize as traits and behaviours that reflect our innate goodness. In this life coaching episode, join me for a reflective and inspirational look at what it means to be love.  namaste xo I invite you to experience the first three sacred lessons of my online course, being love as my gift.  It will give you the necessary ideas and help to begin a journey of what it means to be loving towards yourself and others, to practice self care, and to be kindness and love outwardly even when you may not feel positive or happy.  You will learn how to return to a state of divine spiritual love that originates from within, so that you can be this in your life - and in ways that will foster loving relationships with others.  Sign up at: the school of wisdom https://www.dorothyratusny.theschoolofwisdom
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55 reflections
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Dani
Be yourself
The most I know myself and respect myself I alow me and my body to be as we really are. Without need to be liked and aproved by the others
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Shakaya
Love yourself
Remember to love and cherish number one, which is YOU. Be kind to yourself and believe in yourself. And always remember that you are worthy of your own love!
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katia
SO KEY
this is so important everyone needs to have this knowledge solidified in their brains. YOU ARE LOVE
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Tiffany
Love
Love is being your authentic self with everyone. After 40 years of trying to please others, I’m now learning to be my authentic self and I love ME! I’m pretty fantastic! And knowing that allows me to love everyone even harder!!
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Kennedy
August 1st | PB day 3 part 3
Loving myself before I could love someone else is my goal after my recent break up. This definitely told me to be myself and feel that love from yourself so you don’t need t from others. If you are authentic love will naturally be in you and exude out to others. Self love is important because it means you are content with yourself and you can pick yourself up without someone else doing that for you. This was a really good life coach meditation.
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iGentleBoy
Be real
Be the ”real” you, you may lose a lot of friends; however, you will find yourself surrounded with other ”real” people. You have the courage for that?!
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Sergei
Being yourself is all people can ask of you
Being authentic and true to yourself is hard because you want others to like you. But being honest and authentic in your reactions will cause less stress on you
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Karen
Life Coaching- mini session
I really need to take time out to listen mindfully each day instead of staying in my head- SO stressful and unsettling.
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Kyrra
Love
Love is patient love is kind. Love is accepting and whole. Love is bright and warm and exciting.
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Cassidy
Love
I need to stop hiding what I love because I’m ashamed of what people would think. I need to embrace it and become more confident. I need to stop caring what other people think about me and accept myself.
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Laura
Live your best life
Sometimes words hurts more than actions and maybe some thoughts that I have need to stay in my head
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Tom
This is you.. Being love
It’s just about shaving away all the facades and layers. Being love, to me, means being the truest form of yourself
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Emilie
This Is You... Being Love
I learned that i don’t need people’s approvel and that I should love me for who I am.
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Alea
3 minutes
I learned that taking the time to sit still and be aware (even for what seems like the shortest bit) has power
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Alea
3 minutes
I learned that taking the time to sit still and be aware (even for what seems like the shortest bit) has power
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Elijah
I need to love myself for who I am. Anxiety will not take over my life anymore
Love matters. I have to accept the mistakes I have made and put them in the past and just relax and enjoy life.
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Jordyn
This is you
This reminded me to be authentic. To not lower myself for the approval of others, and to appreciate myself for what I am capable of.
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Adhlemy
This is You... Being Loved
That it's okay to also love back unconditionally but love yourself first.
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Corey
A Bit Problematic
There was some good stuff here and also some questionable advice. But the part that stuck out for me was that children speak their truth and are “real” and that is something we all should aspire to. The problem is that little kids can accidentally say some really cruel and hurtful things! Just because you think or experience something doesn’t mean it needs to come out of your mouth. I know I definitely hold back from expressing my “truth” but I don’t think that makes me and less “real”!
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Emma
Letting go
I felt that I just released and let go of all the toxic people and things and traits that I have and replacing them with better things in life that will make me happier.
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Giselle
Being Love
I learned that I have to stop worrying about approval and just be authentic as best I can.
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Matthew
I am love
I feel genuine love and compassion for everyone I meet, even when those feelings are not reciprocated. Sometimes this means I get hurt, but never so much that I stop being who/what I am!
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kate
love
I learned that love is the most precious gift of God and love will teach you on how to be loyal and patient in all kinds of things
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Hannah
Love
I think it’s important to love yourself before you try loving anyone else. Being in love with yourself makes you love. It’s easier to be kind and caring when you’re in love with yourself. That’s a journey I want to take, the journey to falling in complete love with myself; unconditionally.
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michalis
a great advice...How just a different thought can change all you daily pressure that you create...
Just a different thought can change your pressure that you create...
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Rasiel
being loved/yourself
This narration didn't connect with me at all. it told me things that I already knew, and though it did this, it didn't really feel affirming.
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Monika
Love
Rather than seeking love with another person it's important you find love within yourself. You are always enough you don't need others to love you to feel validated.
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yasmin
being love
I learned that you should always be yourself because why would you be born to fit in when you could stand out from the rest. you should always accept who you are and who you will be. there shouldn't be anyone that can hurt you for who you are.
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Ana Sofia
Being Love
We should be love, no matter what. We complicate this with too many reasons and no reasons enough to justify the action. I felt the necessity to be pure and set myself free because there are too many chains during our lives.
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Susan
Being Love
Be you. Speak your truth from your heart. Be kind. Be whole. Be complete.
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Isabel
Love
I am now more aware that I need to love no matter what. I need to love not caring if others love me back. Love is what everyone wants, but no one is willing to give it if they don't have it first.
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Justinne
Authenticity
Problema ko ito e. Sabi nila dapat daw magpakatotoo ako sa kung sino ako. And I try to do so -- alam ko na isa akong sarcastic, socially inept, palamura, could be cold, at walang pakialam sa mga bagay na walang kinalaman sa akin na uri ng tao. Ganito ako e. Hindi ako naninira ng ibang tao, ginagawa ko ang best ko na hindi makasakit ng iba lalo na dahil sa humor ko, kaya nga kapag feeling kong may na-offend ako, nagmemessage ako agad sa kanya para mag-sorry. Hindi ako 'yong warm na tao, lalo na sa umpisa. Kailangan pang lumalim ang relasyon ko sa isang tao para maipakita ko 'yong malambot kong side. Pero may mga taong nagsasabi na hindi ako dapat ganito. E ganito ako talaga e. Kailangan ko bang maging warm and cuddly para matanggap nila? I think that is very unfair para sa akin. If I be who I really am, people might get offended and get the wrong image of me. Pero if i change, I am not being who I really am. Anoooo?
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Josh
love
I learnt that the only kind of love I need is my own and that i should accept and love those ppl back who truely love me, as long as I do that I will be alright
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Shivani
03.09.2019/01h14
I need to get real. I need to be authentic. I need to be honest with myself and others. I realize how much emphasis I place on judgement and approval from others. To that I want to say, who cares? I need to live my life the way I want to. I need to do more of what I like. I only have one life and I don't want to spend it living in fear or by someone else's way.
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Sharmain
Reality
What struck me most is that “change” is a choice, in which your participation is necessary so that you can use it as a tool rather than just something that signals something new is happening. That if we learn to embrace “change” as a means of improving ourselves, it can bring opportunities and happiness. Most of the times I feel stressed whenever I know that a change is imminent, whether if it’s at work or at home. I feel like shit because it can be daunting to do something out of my territory. But only if I knew then that I can view those changes as something that could help me grow, I probably had paid better attention and knew myself more. This is an eye opener. And it means a lot because I am now at a point where I have to decide to be willing to try and participate in another change that has yet to happen in my life. Thank you for the wisdom ❤️
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Hadi
What I really feel
I got reminded to keep being truthful and honorable, while looking at my emotions to see what I really feel instead of mirroring the feelings that I sense from others.
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Matias
Be loved and share love
It’s true that love is the best answer of all our problems. I believe all human beings and even animals we all share love and have love inside us, for some of us it is difficult to express for some reason but once we start to open ourselves and share that love and kindness with others everything seems more beautiful. For example, for me it is difficult to share love with my closests ones, my family. My father has always been very tough and not open about feelings, unfortunately it is difficult for me to have a good conversation and share good moments with him because of that. I don’t like being around people with bad energy and whenever I’m around him I don’t feel comfortable. These things are not a reason to hate him by the way, I love him and I always wish him the best and I hope someday he could open just a little bit and appreciate more his family and life.
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Livia
Being Love
Be you. Be who you are because this is you and you love yourself.
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Stéphano
Parte do todo
Percebi como eu faço parte do ambiente, como minha energia pode influenciar minha mente.
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Brittany
Love
I want to be in love. But I don't let people get to close. I am not real with who I am. I guess I'm still figuring out what I want or who I am but.... I want to be love. And I want someone to love.
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tessa
I am a Leo that loves to love
a Leo is said to obsess over one, the thought of us, love. I feel to love unconditionally; I am always focused on LOVE. I would like to say I'm one with this 🖤🙃
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Deb
Well that's a god one!
I listened to this along time ago and favorited it. It came up this morning as the only option so I took it. Such a good reminder. It is a work in progress for me. I am still working on living my truth. There are some judgmental people in my life who need to zip it and let me be free to be me. 💗Amen!
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Susan
Being Love
For 10 years I have needed to speak my truth but instead I have tried to be polite. The burden has really effected me. I am unhappy. I have gained weight. I have let my happiness go. Now I have decided to speak my truth and my life is moving forward. But I need to be aware that when the time comes to speak, I will do it from love and not anger.
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Cherish
Being Love
In this beautiful Life Coaching session, Dorothy explains to us how we can incorporate love in our lives to essentially BE love. Being love is a choice. Being love means to be our true authentic self and to be able to speak our truth without fear of others approval. We can learn to grow our loving spiritual being so even when we are not feeling happy or positive, we can still protrude love outwardly to everything and everyone. We can choose to be kind to others and others, to be compassionate, to be truthful and to be honorable. Indeed, being love is a choice that we can all make to live a life full of love!
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Amanda
You don’t need others approval
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Rachel
you are your biggest critic
I learned that you must find what you like to do, and if you say something to yourself over and over again, eventually you’ll believe it. Though it may be difficult, don’t look at yourself in the mirror and think: ‘I am disliked’, because even though that’s not the pure truth it is so SO easy to convince yourself lies are the truth. you are your biggest critic.
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Linda
Where it’s at
This rings so true for me. It makes me peaceful and motivated at the same time. It says it all.
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Danielle
Be love
Be love in all my relationships allow me to be true to myself and authentic.
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Judi
Being love
Authentic and being love. Honesty and confidence. No approvals needed. Keeping yourself real is important.
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Mpho
Being love
You don’t owe anyone an explanation to be love. Just be yourself in all aspects. Children are made out of love and emotions are involved. Children are love as is God.
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Cookie
Being love
I learned you have to be yourself and not need approval from anyone
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Grace
It came to me...
I seek to have peace. My life can be chaotic but peace represents love and reflection and harmony. Lack of peace causes turmoil and stress.
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Crystal
Love is being
Love is being able to speak your truth without worry of recrimination and being able to be with another’s truth without making it mean anything about you.
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Marisa
Discovering who I am?
I learned yesterday through an energy healing that I was a shaman in many other lives, I burned at the stake in the Salem witch trials for being accused of a witch when in actuality I was being true to myself and practicing spiritualism, I learned I’m an empath, my son is an empath and now I really want to discover who I am.
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Kim
Being love
I noticed that I have to start believing in myself again and start back to loving myself for me and no one else.
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